If you were suddenly unable to speak for yourself, who would make medical decisions on your behalf?

It's not an easy question, but it's one of the most important decisions you'll make as part of your estate plan.

A health care proxy (also called a health care representative or medical power of attorney in some states) is the person you legally authorize to make health care decisions if you're unable to communicate your wishes yourself.

Choosing the right person matters just as much as signing the document.

What Makes a Good Health Care Proxy?

The best choice isn't always the oldest child, your closest relative, or even your spouse.

Instead, look for someone who will faithfully carry out your wishes, even if they would personally make a different decision.

A strong health care proxy is someone who:

• Puts your values and wishes ahead of their own.

• Remains calm under pressure.

• Can make thoughtful decisions during stressful situations.

• Communicates clearly with physicians and other medical professionals.

• Is willing to ask questions and advocate on your behalf.

• Is reasonably available if urgent decisions need to be made.

Just as importantly, choose someone who is willing to take on the responsibility.

Don't Skip the Conversation

Once you've chosen your health care proxy, talk with them.

Discuss your values, your priorities, and the kinds of medical decisions that matter most to you. While no one can predict every circumstance, having these conversations gives your proxy confidence and helps ensure they can honor your wishes if the unexpected happens.

Why Having a Health Care Proxy Matters

Many people assume their family will automatically be able to make medical decisions for them.

In reality, without the proper legal documents, decision-making authority may not be as straightforward as people expect. Family members may disagree, uncertainty can create unnecessary stress, and loved ones may be left trying to guess what you would have wanted.

By naming a health care proxy in advance, you create clarity during an already difficult time.

More importantly, you ensure that someone you trust is prepared to speak for you when you cannot speak for yourself.

Estate Planning Is About More Than Assets

Estate planning isn't only about deciding who receives your property. It's also about protecting you during your lifetime.

Choosing a trusted health care proxy is one of the most meaningful ways you can prepare for the unexpected while giving your loved ones guidance, confidence, and peace of mind.

Ready to Create Your Estate Plan?

A comprehensive estate plan protects both your family and your future.

During a Peace of Mind Strategy Session, we'll help you choose the right people, create the right documents, and build a plan that reflects your wishes with clarity and intention.